You need to take responsibility for your own issues. Since I am now 18 and a LEGAL ADULT I can no longer blame my parents for anything. Yes maybe they didn't give me the same things that my sisters are able to get now (swimming lessons , music lessons ...) , but I lived in a different financial situation than them and my parents tried to do the best that they could. Now its time for me to take my life into my own hands. The point is you can either get better of get bitter about your past. The most important thing is that you take what has happened to you and you deal with it and make sure that it gives you a drive to be a better person than you are now. You can create your own fate because the past is the past and that's over.
I realised that it was time to forgive my parents and move on , because lets be honest parents are just children themselves that have had to grow up because they didn't have a choice , society forced them to. So its time to stop feeling resentful towards them and accept them for who they are and love them unconditionally like they loved you. You need to stop being the parent blamer because in the long run it will only hurt you emotionally and physically. Let it go (like Elsa said) . Live your life the way you want to , live in the now.
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